About Ruth
About Ruth Fankushen
My life experiences have taught me that healing is possible. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified EMDR Clinician, I work with adult clients all over California online, and I also see clients in person in my Davis, California office. I received my Master's in Counseling Psychology from California Institute of Integral Studies in 2012 and my BA in English from UC Davis in 1990.
Personal growth, building community, and living creatively have always been central to my life. After graduating from UC Davis, I co-founded and operated the Delta of Venus Cafe in Davis, California for three years. Running the cafe meant building community, facing fears, and taking risks as an entrepreneur. After selling the business and before becoming a therapist, I worked for Wired.com and started a family. Aside from spending time with my family and friends, I enjoy cooking, writing, listening to music, creating ceramic pet bereavement pieces for my Etsy store, spending time in nature, and working on NY Times puzzles. I see clients online from San Anselmo, California and in-person in my Davis, California office. I am committed to providing an inclusive, culturally responsive, and affirming space for individuals of all backgrounds, identities, and lived experiences.
Qualifications
Training & Credentials
- Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
- EMDRIA-Certified EMDR Clinician
- Trained in Attachment-Focused EMDR — Parnell Institute
- Trained in EMDR Intensive Format
- MA, Counseling Psychology — California Institute of Integral Studies (2012)
- BA, English — UC Davis (1990)
How I Work
My Approach
I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all model of healing. Every person who walks through my door — or logs on to a session — brings a unique history, a unique nervous system, and a unique set of strengths. I feel honored to spend time with clients, listening and learning.
People have told me that I am warm and direct. I will not let you stay stuck in the story of what happened — my aim is to help you move through it. At the same time, I will check in often and never push you faster than your nervous system is ready to go. We work at the pace of safety. You are always in charge.
Outside the therapy room, I'm a dog lover, a reader, an artist, a walker, and a believer in the healing power of being in nature and in community with others.
Ready to Begin?
If something here resonates, I'd love to connect. Reach out to start a conversation — no pressure, no commitment.